This happens a all to often, something late in life triggers the woman’s feelings she wakes up one morning with all these weird thoughts, usually in there mid 30’s to early 40’s. Anything could of triggered it, something from the past, talking to people, reading, or even a movie.
Back in the day I use to see a lot of married women who were married, yup they would either come over to my play or they would rent a room. It had nothing at all to do with sex, not in anyway..
These women had these desires to be tied up, spanked, humiliated. Talked to about the lifestyle. When I say a lot I am talking several.
Many had talked to there husbands about there feelings while some could not, because they felt dirty, something had to be wrong with them. Or there husbands told them they were sick, they needed help,get away from me.
Seriously wow.. Okay let me get this straight, from my point of view here. You have a wife of many years at this point sex is really pretty boring foreplay is a thing of the past it is now a job.
The truth is your having sex maybe twice a month if that, at about 15 minutes maybe shorter because he is missing the game.
Instead of trying to have a greater understanding of her feelings, you push her away. She is no longer normal. a freak.
I really hope there are a few vanilla guys reading this, because it gets better. Your wife has gone through a transformation she is burning up inside, and your worried about the fucking nicks.
Your wife has turned into most every mans dream. When is the last time you told your wife, hey come here and suck my cock, go to the bedroom and spread, I want to fuck your ass, or you have the need to just put her on her knees and face fuck her. Tie her up, spank her. These are things husband get girlfriends for, but here you have a wife who will do Anything you want ANYTHING. at times there are no limits, well within reason.
What does she want in return, you spend spend sometime talking, be a little firm with her, give her a few task to do during the day, call and check up on her. Hold her at night. Shes asking for an hour a day now instead of the fifteen minutes you give her. shes asking for greater communication so she can express her feelings.
Really so why not watch the nicks while getting head, what can be better than that? She will be anything thing you want your wife, friend or your whore.
If you guys are not willing to bend, guess what? There going to stray, begin to talk to someone else who has a greater understanding of there needs, what there feeling, why there feeling this way.
What you women are feeling is perfectly normal, nothing is wrong with you. As a matter of fact the medical profession is just now coming around and they are accepting the BDSM lifestyle, it is no longer a perversion.
You as submissives or slaves can do things as well, to feel like you want. Pick simple task to do, things you think need to be done, point out what you have done. Make him tell you what he wants for dinner that morning. Make it clear you made the car payment, paid the cable bill, sweep and moped, dusted everything you do.
Start dressing a little more provocative be more vocal during sex, I am not talking screaming or yelling, tell him you like that. While watching TV just out of the blue start to masturbate being casual about it, come one now what man can resist that. Unzip his pants out of the blue go to town or while in bed just do it without a thought.
Maybe a few of these things will help…..