Archive | April 2012
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To all Slave and Submissives
I am on who is short and to the point, and I only have one question. What the fuck are you doing ? Now we all know when meeting someone one new, the whole meeting things is all about safety or I thought is was. I know sometimes we just do not think, we fail […]
The Munch Last Night
You know I am not one to blow my cool, in fact I cannot remember the last time I blew my top, and I am not one to make a scene. I have not gotten out much due to a car accident I was in last June, but the last couple of months I have […]
The Dali Lama has a Penis
Recently, The Dali Lama gave an interview in which he said he found women attractive. Over at PsychCentral, there’s an interesting response to the media’s shock that The Dali Lama made such a confession: I confess I find articles like this both vexing and laugh-out-loud funny. The article is a summary of Piers Morgan’s exclusive […]
“Homophobic? Maybe You’re Gay”
There’s an interesting article at the New York Times on some sexuality studies indicating that homophobic people often have same-sex desires. WHY are political and religious figures who campaign against gay rights so often implicated in sexual encounters with same-sex partners? In recent years, Ted Haggard, an evangelical leader who preached that homosexuality was a […]
A Different Kind of Pinup
Rugby player Sacha Harding recently stripped for a calandar to raise money for HIV. Harding recently bared all, posing for the cover of Britain’s Gay Times magazine as part of a fund-raiser for the Elton John AIDS Foundation. He was one of 54 men who went full monty for the magazine’s annual Naked Issue, and […]
Pussy Rings
Musician Grimes just released pictures of her new jewlery line featuring rings in the shape of vulvas. Read more at Bust.
Positional Protocol Training
A week or so ago I went over a few slave positions. I have been reading up on the Gorean lifestyle and there protocol. The protocol is something that is all but gone in our community, I know I keep bringing that up, but it just irks me to no end. In the Gorean Lifestyle […]
Why A Gorean Slave
I have just recently began doing research on the Gorean slaves. It is not the lifestyle that intrigues me as much as the protocol, which as really gone to crap as far as the BDSM lifestyle. I was sitting outside yesterday sipping courvoisier congnac smoking a good cigar, and a munch came to mind I […]
Total Power Exchange
An article I ran across I found to be very interesting.. The problems with the definition of abuse within an Absolute and Total Power Exchange commitment/relationship is very clear. Abuse is completely subjective. Everyone has different perceptions, principles and standards, as well as different needs, wants and kinks. So, lets look at some commonly used […]
On The G Spot
Interesting article by sex researcher Debby Herbenick, PhD. When your job involves researching and teaching about sex, as mine at Indiana University and the Kinsey Institute does, there’s nothing strange about getting calls about the G spot. But over the past week, these messages have taken a more urgent tone. Rather than asking the usual questions—Where […]
Masters Who Switch
Now I am not close minded in anyway shape or form , as a matter of fact I am probably one of the most open minded Dominant you will ever meet. Let me say something real fast , someone complained to me because I did not speak about gays being in the lifestyle, now to […]
The Submissive meets a new Dominant
So your meeting a new submissive, you may have met her on craigslist, maybe plenty of fish, I doubt Eharmony eh maybe possible. I think Eharmony blocked me. I talk to a lot of submissives or slaves who were meeting a new dom, and hoping to start a relationship, there looking for the one. Before […]
What am I
In the BDSM lifestyle there are many different roles, we all have different needs, fetishes, kinks. Our imagination grows daily. Everyday is a learning process for us. Here is the tricky part, what are we? I myself have played many different roles in the past 20 years, it was not until I hit the 5 […]
Why Safewords
I myself when in a long term relationship I do not use safe words. I do not recommend this for new dominants or new submissives. One reason is your still learning. It was some ten years, into the lifestyle when I dropped the safe word system, with only one exception, that is during a session […]
Guys and Dolls
Here is a BBC documentary, in five parts, that I watched a while back on men who own Real Dolls. I thought it was interesting and thought I’d share.
BDSM And HYPNOSIS
This is something that has peaked my interest here lately. So I have started making some phone calls. Now what would the possibility’s be. I would think this could be fun, but dangerous as well,. I do not think it is something you could learn over night, or in the wrong hands… this is really […]
Pimping a Blog
http://myvirtualsubmission.wordpress.com Go check out Ana, she really writes about some awesome stuff, erotic, hot, will leave you wishing you were, anyway it is hot check her out, the blog that is..
Is Servitude for you
I was speaking with a slave sometime ago, who’s wish was to serve in complete servitude , more so she wanted complete solitude. This is not a topic that arises very often, and I am sure there are a lot of Dominants who would jump at the opportunity to own a submissive seeking this type […]
The Sex Reports 